One of our first graders, Cameron, is very low on the academic scale. We don't know much about his background other than he is from Arizona and this is his first year at Naples Elementary. It didn't take long to determine that Cameron doesn't recognize many of the numbers or letters of the alphabet. He is very small and actually quite young for a first-grader. After her observations, Mrs. Kester called his mother to set up a meeting regarding his academic standing. She also invited the principal, Mrs. Chattam, to attend. I was also eager to attend to see how a meeting of this magnitude proceeded.
One of two things was to come about from the meeting. First, Cameron could return to Kindergarten and thrive in an academic environment of his level or two, he would finish the first grade this year and repeat it again next year. Mrs. Kester was hopeful that the mother would choose the Kindergarten option as he is quite frustrated with the level of first grade.
Mrs. Kester started the meeting by asking the mother to tell us about Cameron. This first step his critical to a successful meeting. The student after all, is her child, and she knows him best. She gladly told us his background, how he struggled learning letters and sounds, how he spent some time with an RTI specialist and how he had to switch schools midyear. She said it was a rough year for him. Mrs. Kester then told her the observations, the options, and showed her some of his tests. Although Mrs. Chattam did not say much, she did say she supported the teacher's findings.
Cameron's mother said she wanted what was best for him. She wasn't surprised because she also had been watchful of his lack of spelling and reading abilities. She urged the school to put him into a Kindergarten class.
Everyone had Cameron's best intentions at heart and felt that the final decision was for the best.
I am grateful for the opportunity to see such a successful parent/teacher meeting. I know how hard it is for a parent to hear of her child's struggles. I thought Mrs. Kester performed professionally while maintaining an air of genuine concern. This meeting gave me great knowledge on how to conduct my own meetings next year.